Monday, October 6, 2008
Can Guys and Girls Just Be Friends?
Recently this subject has crossed my mind: Can guys and girls be friends? I have started to wonder about this. I've come to learn that maybe people think that if guys and girls are friends, they are either friends with benefits or they are leading on the way to being more than just friends. In my personal life I have some guy friends. I don't have any intentions on getting with these guys, and I hope that their intentions are not to get with me beyond a friendship. I mean, I don't look at gender, I just think we have similar interests and good chemistry. I hate it when I talk to a guy or one of my guy friends and people assume right off the back that we are doing something. It just bothers me, I mean why can't we be friends? Just because we're not concerned about them doesn't mean we're defending each other like boyfriend and girlfriend. That's just like if you were defending your ther friends, or a best friend for instance. I mean a friend is going to be loyal to you and have your back, no matter what. But I don't know.Is it because guys and girls are opposite sex that they just can't be friends? I don't know what to think, what's your opinion?
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4 comments:
Yes guys and girls can just be friends. Its all in hoe your boundries are set. If you are friends you are friends. I think it is actually easier to have more friends of the opposite sex. And for those x's, yes you can still be friends if you are mature about the situation.
my opinion is that guys and girls can be friends .i personaly have no problem with it . i think its cool and i have alot of friends that are boys matter of fact its kind of even friends are friends no matter the difference
I've personally always wanted a guy best friend...i think they offer a different, much-need point of view, also, i prefer having guy friends because girls have too much drama which i don't have patience for...
I THINK WE CAN JUST BE FRIENDS. BUT IF YOU LIKE SOMEBODY YOU JUST LIKE SOMEBODY. BUT IM NEVER GET IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ANY OF MY GUY FRIENDS BECAUSE I'M SCARED THAT IT MAY DAMAGE OUR FRIENDSHIP. BUT I DID DO THAT ONCE AND NOW HE'S AN EX AND WE DON'T EVEN TALK ANYMORE. SO.....
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